Filed under: The Game.
Bad experiences are worth living through.
I used to think that the world was against me, that the world was nothing but a dark and unpleasant place, where people are filled with negative intent. I felt like nobody understood me.
It took me a while, but I stood up and started my modest journey with the intent to cure a heartbreak. It was exhilarating, it was fun. I was shown a world filled with many characters beyond what I would have imagined. The world was a playground.
And today, I’m a happy person.
Why am I happy?
- All that is needed is a switch of perception. To just be positive goes a long way. That is what I’ve been doing, and that is all I need.
- I recognized that everyone has to have standards in life.
- I acknowledge that everyone is unique in their own way.
- There is no use in blaming others.
- Because life is a learning experience.
Being positive.
I used to be a very negative person. But what I don’t realize is that by being negative, I’m drawing negative energy to myself. When things weren’t going my way, I would be negative and whine about it. My whole day would be ruined. Doesn’t it sound familiar? By focusing on the positive things in life, the negatives don’t really seem like a big deal anymore. Soon, I started noticing good things that were happening to me, things that I wouldn’t notice if I was being so negative in the first place. The secret to being happy is so simple- be positive.
Standards in life.
This is especially true for Beta Males. Must we cling on and be needy for a person? Have we ever thought about how it feels like to be an attractive woman? To be a person who has choice, who has control, who makes decisions that she wants. Enough with nonsense about her being unique etc, because in reality she isn’t. You feel that way because you don’t have choice, you don’t have control, and the decisions you make are based on the limited choices that you have. There are quality people out there, which brings me to:
Everyone is unique in their own way.
I simply cannot understand how a person would judge another so harshly without even having an actual conversation with the said person. Nature aside, we’re all going through and have become a product of nurture. Social forces determine how we interact with people. Beneath that rough exterior, there is a uniqueness in every person’s core. The only way we could get in touch with this uniqueness if we took the effort to build rapport, comfort, trust and respect. All this wouldn’t happen if a person has already failed the first step: to judge before knowing. The battle is already lost before it even begun.
Blaming others?
There is no use in this, simply because it doesn’t bring any benefit in doing so. Why feel bad when you can feel good? Just recognize that it all happened because our game is not tight. Girlfriend cheated? Game not tight. Guy stealing girlfriend? Game not tight. I doubt that by being Alpha, these things would occur. Even if it did, an Alpha male would have left her before that, or be unaffected by it, knowing that he has to be positive, have better standards than before, improve his game, and have this mantra internalized:
Life is a learning experience.
I live life everyday by being positive, and by being positive I know that things will go my way. These standards that I set are achievable, and I know it, and am therefore not desperate and live the moment. I take the time to interact with everyone and anyone, because everyone is unique in their own way. I enjoy conversations with people because I don’t judge, and I don’t see myself as being better than others. I do not blame others on my misfortunes, because the only person that could do something about it is me. Instead, I make it a learning experience, because life is meant to teach us things that we have not yet learned. These are the reasons why, today, I’m happy.
Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
